SPEAKING OF DOUBLE STANDARS
Speaking of double standards,
Today that topic came up in a conversation with a couple of friends...
I would like to make a statement of principles, more or less so that those of you who are starting to follow my blog and my madness, can get an idea of who is the woman behind that image of Porn and Prostitute Actress that you may be having on me.
There is one thing that made my heart beat when I started to focus my energy on professionalizing my sexuality.
It seemed to me so transgressor and important that a woman in the XXI century, not only undressed but dedicated her life to sex and not to a single man as is expected of us women.
There is still a lot of taboo about sexuality, about sexual orientation and a lot of discrimination, which is the result of ignorance, of the lack of ears to empathize.
And well, to be the voice and image of all those women who still wear burqas and I may not understand their freedom behind the veils from my Europeanist point of view. But even so, it seems to me an enormous freedom for which I must continue to do so and that is to be able to put myself in balls on my beaches or make my videos enjoying and earn money for it.
I was always a defender of human rights and the freedom of the person regardless of sex or sexual orientation, especially the personal freedom to be, say and be wherever we want.
I was always quite an enemy of the inner police that represses and underlies the social morals in order not to give free rein to desire.
And it seems that my ideas took me far in life.
There is also a point within all this, which I hope you will not judge because each one lives her freedom from where she is born.
Not all women feel the impulse to reveal themselves, to undress or to prove anything in the name of freedom.
I also admire those women who are able to enjoy the simplicity of a single man, the depth that this type of relationship and the familiarity that it entails, but today, is not my way and I do not judge or discriminate.
We all have a place on this planet.
To which I went, the double standard, and especially dedicated to men who are the main consumers of sex but to whom talking about sex scares them so much.
That banker who squanders his money with us in the midst of his tremendous loneliness.
That businessman who gets bored and calls us.
That insurance manager who needs to talk about his marital problems with someone.
That cardiac surgeon, a heavy smoker, more lost in his ethics than in anything else, enjoying his short erection like crazy.
That tourist left by the bride recently in search of a little compassion.
That company director who knows that only you do those things that he wants so much and does not dare to share.
That supermarket assistant who knows that by paying a little more he gets more attention and quality and saves and spends it with you.
That Pilot who doesn't stop from one place to another and needs your caresses before flying.
That business couching that seeks strong emotions outside of marriage because Anthony Robbins falls short.
And I could go on, because there are as many examples as there are people in the world.
Everyone is looking for one thing... LOVE
Love or a short substitute that reminds them of that love they felt in other arms, or perhaps they are looking for a heart that does not judge them, that does not compromise either, falls in love but is understanding... or firm breasts that make them feel young again.
Whatever you are looking for, ACCEPT IT, there is no reason to hide it.
Double standards play against us. Accepting our desire is part of that path towards divine consciousness and towards the acceptance of the self, so that we can show ourselves complete.
We forgot to teach in schools how to be good communicators, how to listen to our needs and above all how to be sincere with ourselves.
I love being there for all of you, but I would love it more if in this world there were no gender violence, no abusive partners, no double standards that reign everywhere on this planet.
Growing strongly when we are something, but we prefer that others see something else.
And that's how it goes, we say that politicians, that these, that others, but we never look or give ourselves permission to accept the consequences of changing society being honest and transparent, consistent in thought, action and word.
ACCEPT IT, the double standard only lengthens the pathetic end of the chain of lies that drag, perhaps die lying to themselves ...
Maybe they will commit to change and start living a more satisfying and open life.
COHERENCE BETWEEN THOUGHT, WORD AND ACTION.
That is the solution.
Today that topic came up in a conversation with a couple of friends...
I would like to make a statement of principles, more or less so that those of you who are starting to follow my blog and my madness, can get an idea of who is the woman behind that image of Porn and Prostitute Actress that you may be having on me.
There is one thing that made my heart beat when I started to focus my energy on professionalizing my sexuality.
It seemed to me so transgressor and important that a woman in the XXI century, not only undressed but dedicated her life to sex and not to a single man as is expected of us women.
There is still a lot of taboo about sexuality, about sexual orientation and a lot of discrimination, which is the result of ignorance, of the lack of ears to empathize.
And well, to be the voice and image of all those women who still wear burqas and I may not understand their freedom behind the veils from my Europeanist point of view. But even so, it seems to me an enormous freedom for which I must continue to do so and that is to be able to put myself in balls on my beaches or make my videos enjoying and earn money for it.
I was always a defender of human rights and the freedom of the person regardless of sex or sexual orientation, especially the personal freedom to be, say and be wherever we want.
I was always quite an enemy of the inner police that represses and underlies the social morals in order not to give free rein to desire.
And it seems that my ideas took me far in life.
There is also a point within all this, which I hope you will not judge because each one lives her freedom from where she is born.
Not all women feel the impulse to reveal themselves, to undress or to prove anything in the name of freedom.
I also admire those women who are able to enjoy the simplicity of a single man, the depth that this type of relationship and the familiarity that it entails, but today, is not my way and I do not judge or discriminate.
We all have a place on this planet.
To which I went, the double standard, and especially dedicated to men who are the main consumers of sex but to whom talking about sex scares them so much.
That banker who squanders his money with us in the midst of his tremendous loneliness.
That businessman who gets bored and calls us.
That insurance manager who needs to talk about his marital problems with someone.
That cardiac surgeon, a heavy smoker, more lost in his ethics than in anything else, enjoying his short erection like crazy.
That tourist left by the bride recently in search of a little compassion.
That company director who knows that only you do those things that he wants so much and does not dare to share.
That supermarket assistant who knows that by paying a little more he gets more attention and quality and saves and spends it with you.
That Pilot who doesn't stop from one place to another and needs your caresses before flying.
That business couching that seeks strong emotions outside of marriage because Anthony Robbins falls short.
And I could go on, because there are as many examples as there are people in the world.
Everyone is looking for one thing... LOVE
Love or a short substitute that reminds them of that love they felt in other arms, or perhaps they are looking for a heart that does not judge them, that does not compromise either, falls in love but is understanding... or firm breasts that make them feel young again.
Whatever you are looking for, ACCEPT IT, there is no reason to hide it.
Double standards play against us. Accepting our desire is part of that path towards divine consciousness and towards the acceptance of the self, so that we can show ourselves complete.
We forgot to teach in schools how to be good communicators, how to listen to our needs and above all how to be sincere with ourselves.
I love being there for all of you, but I would love it more if in this world there were no gender violence, no abusive partners, no double standards that reign everywhere on this planet.
Growing strongly when we are something, but we prefer that others see something else.
And that's how it goes, we say that politicians, that these, that others, but we never look or give ourselves permission to accept the consequences of changing society being honest and transparent, consistent in thought, action and word.
ACCEPT IT, the double standard only lengthens the pathetic end of the chain of lies that drag, perhaps die lying to themselves ...
Maybe they will commit to change and start living a more satisfying and open life.
COHERENCE BETWEEN THOUGHT, WORD AND ACTION.
That is the solution.
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